Well, I don't think you can force someone to come out of hiding if they're really that stubborn about it, but...that said, I think you should give it your best shot. Sometimes the most sincere efforts are the ones that are swiftly rewarded.

Plus, it's also possible that she just needs time to think about things, and will make herself known once she's ready to speak with the two of you again. Either way, I'm sure that this misunderstanding can and will be cleared up soon, with enough effort from everyone working together on it.

[Or Cilan's just really optimistic and hopeful enough that you three will work things out, but we digress.]